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on Feb 21, 2007

hi,can someone help me out?as you know i have taken in a family of 5 who needed a place to go.one of the 5 is my sons girlfriend so i felt obligated.i also if knew if they moved out of state my 16 year old probably would have followed.coz you know he is in ''love''.anyhow come to find out the daughters have stole from my daughter.some money and a wedding band.five dollars was recovered also the ring.but noone will own up.the girl friend did to five dollars but more was stollen.im trying to see both sides.like maybe the money was misplaced,not the rihgt amount or some thing else.something isnt sitting right and i can feel it.im hurt i have taken these people into my home and have gotten in debt.i want good for all i realy do.this puts us in a hard spot my daughter.my son.i cant throw them out in the winter.can someone give me feed back please?

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2. skeet posted on Feb 22, 2007... modified on Feb 22, 2007

i agree to some point but i also dont have all the facts yet.one of the 4 children is disabled so what kind of human being would i be to do such a thing in this very cold winter.the cops came and living in such a small town i know them very well.he said and i quote"i have been here only 5 mins.and know who is lying"the problem i am having is WHY IS IT SO HARD TO TELL THE TRUTH,BUT LYING IS SO EASY?i dont get it.but i thank you realy and trust me my son will not move now when i kick them out.

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1. ekikaseven posted on Feb 21, 2007

You have to be strong. You have to put them out. Whether your son follows his girlfriend or not, that is his choice. You cannont 'hold' on to him by 'being responsible' for his life and those he associate with. I know you probably think I am being cruel. But a few years from now, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. You, my dear, are setting yourself up for alot of 'heartbreak and pain', not to mention financial loss. Put your foot down now! I don't know how long these people have been living with you but the longer your wait, then you might have to go through 'legal means (eviction)' to get rid of them. Since, they have stolen from you, then you can get the police involved. Stand your ground. I'm sure your son probably will get mad at you. If he wants to 'act' like a man, then 'treat' him like a 'man'. Men provide for their own women. It is not another person's place to pay for a man's piece of-----. Good luck!

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