lies

i agree to some point but i also dont have all the facts yet.one of the 4 children is disabled so what kind of human being would i be to do such a thing in this very cold winter.the cops came and living in such a small town i know them very well.he said and i quote"i have been here only 5 mins.and know who is lying"the problem i am having is WHY IS IT SO HARD TO TELL THE TRUTH,BUT LYING IS SO EASY?i dont get it.but i thank you realy and trust me my son will not move now when i kick them out.

You have to be strong. You have to put them out. Whether your son follows his girlfriend or not, that is his choice. You cannont 'hold' on to him by 'being responsible' for his life and those he associate with. I know you probably think I am being cruel. But a few years from now, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. You, my dear, are setting yourself up for alot of 'heartbreak and pain', not to mention financial loss. Put your foot down now! I don't know how long these people have been living with you but the longer your wait, then you might have to go through 'legal means (eviction)' to get rid of them. Since, they have stolen from you, then you can get the police involved. Stand your ground. I'm sure your son probably will get mad at you. If he wants to 'act' like a man, then 'treat' him like a 'man'. Men provide for their own women. It is not another person's place to pay for a man's piece of-----. Good luck!